By Valerie Fitzgerald
Everyone’s got a story. And when people hear mine, they become inspired. America’s story is written by people who have reinvented themselves after encountering adversity and facing it head on. I’m no different.
How I went from a chicken farm in South Dakota to a professional model in Manhattan, from an abused, single mother to a billion dollar agent to celebrities in Beverly Hills, has become a journey that encourages others. I’ve reinvented my life many times, and I eventually carved out my best niche.
When people ask me what are the keys to my personal and professional success, I think to myself “trial and error and a lot of hard work.” However, people want a concrete blueprint to follow, something tangible they can grasp and implement on their own.
To create a sustainable and rewarding life in both the personal and professional realms, I believe these three steps are paramount:
1. Be Consistent - Have clear goals and work toward you goals everyday. Let’s say you are working toward a successful career in real estate. Everyday you need to do something to: further your education of the current market you work in; contact prospective clients; return calls and emails from existing clients; research finance options for impending sales; review marketing campaign and personal website…and that’s just the beginning. There are 100’s of things you can do to further your productivity, and you need to do some of those 100’s of things each and every day, keeping your focus on the most important tasks that will lead you to your goals the fastest.
2. Be Diligent – Be diligent about the things you do and things you say you are going to do. You are only as good as your word. When you tell a client that you’ll research their question…research their question and get back to them quickly. If you say you are going to call a client on a particular day…call that client on that particular day. If you fail to keep your word, others will be inclined to take you less seriously – as a result…you’ll have less opportunities to keep you word. Conversely, whatever you are doing…do it well. Do your best. Clients recognize haphazard or ‘lazy’ work.
3. Be Serious – Yes, take your job seriously…have fun with it, and remember the reasons for why you’re doing what you’re doing. Perhaps you want to make more money, contribute your time to charity or create more family customs and traditions – by reminding yourself of the “why?” you give your efforts meaning.
In my book, Heart and Sold: How to Survive and Build a Recession-Proof Business, I talk about the awakening of the self. At first that feeling is fleeting and unfamiliar; but as you nurture it, you grow more powerful by the day. Two events in my own life profoundly awoke my inner self — the end of my marriage and the birth of my daughter. Both experiences created 180-degree shifts in my life and who I thought I was. Like a diamond in the rough, thousands of pounds of pressure beat away at me until my new self could emerge shiny, beautiful and strong.
Until people started asking me to speak at conferences and events or I was appearing in Top 10 real estate lists nationwide, I really didn’t think about my success. People would say, “Wow, you are amazing!” But I really didn’t know what being amazing meant. I worked hard. I sold houses. I figured out my business. And I put a lot of effort into it.
Remember: success doesn’t happen overnight. The passion that it takes to reach your goals feels like a strong inner drive. There is something inside everyone that triggers that drive and makes people go above and beyond the status quo breaking through mediocrity. That’s what makes their visions come true.
Given the current economic crisis, many people are struggling financially and otherwise. I overcame tremendous personal and financial adversities to create a life I desired most, and so can you. I truly believe that desiring success is a very powerful step to take along the road to achieving it. To live the new possibilities of your imagination is exciting. The possibilities and choices are endless.
About Valerie Fitzgerald
Valerie Fitzgerald is the president of The Valerie Fitzgerald Group and specializes in luxury residential real estate in West Los Angeles in neighborhoods like Beverly Hills, Bel Air, Brentwood, Santa Monica and Malibu. She is the author of Heart and Sold: How to Survive and Build a Recession-Proof Business (Simon and Schuster). She has more than 20 years of real estate experience and is known for her solid reputation in the West Los Angeles real estate community and her celebrity clientele. She is on The Wall Street Journal’s “The Real Estate Top 200 list” and is one of Coldwell Banker’s Top 10 Agents nationwide. She is the exclusive sales agent for Latitude 33, a new Marina del Rey luxury residential community. Learn more http://thevaleriefitzgeraldgroup.com.




